In the blink of an eye, a new semester has begun, and many children have started carrying backpacks to school. However, some babies who have just started kindergarten may experience a situation of rejection, which can be a major concern for many adults. Therefore, today the editor will provide adults with a detailed introduction to what causes babies to suddenly reject going to kindergarten?
What's wrong with a baby suddenly rejecting going to kindergarten?
1. Not familiar with the new environment
Before entering kindergarten, the child lived in a familiar environment and the whole family surrounded him all day long. In kindergarten, it is different. Children find that they are just a part of the class and must follow the collective norms. They need to share what they want, queue up for Dim sum and toys they want to eat, observe order in class, can't speak freely, and there are restrictions everywhere. Children will have a gap in their minds. In order to escape, they will cry and don't want to go to kindergarten.
2. Lack of security
Children live with their parents from a young age, and staying by their parents gives them a sense of security. Leaving familiar people such as parents and going to kindergarten is a huge psychological challenge for children. They will use all means at their disposal to resist this behavior of "not understanding the psychological arrangements of young children" and achieve the goal of meeting their psychological needs for safety.
3. Weak self-care ability
Many children dress and eat with the help of their parents before entering kindergarten, and their self-care ability is weak. However, in kindergarten, they dress, eat, and go to the bathroom to tidy up their own things. It's too difficult for children with weak self-care abilities. In addition, due to not meeting the teacher's requirements and appearing "stupid" compared to other children, there will be a sense of frustration and strong psychological pressure, and they will no longer want to go to kindergarten.
4. Being bullied by peers
Some children are inevitably excluded and become the target of bullying. Over time, children will develop an avoidance mentality, manifested as a lack of speech, always playing alone, and a strong sense of loneliness.
What should children do if they don't want to go to kindergarten
1. Children don't like going to kindergarten because they feel it's full of constraints. To tell children about the various benefits of going to kindergarten: playing with other children, learning new skills, and so on, try to make children feel that kindergarten is a happy place.
2. Parents need to show more care for their children, encourage and praise them more, spend more time with them, or accompany them to play in the park and familiarize themselves with the environment when picking them up. Let him know that after entering kindergarten, parents love their babies even more.
3. Doing a good job in psychological counseling for children, making them feel that not being able to take care of themselves is not a shameful thing. At the same time, children should be encouraged to dress and eat on their own, consciously cultivating their self-care abilities.
I believe that through the above introduction of whether babies suddenly reject going to kindergarten, adults already know the reasons. I hope that adults can take appropriate measures based on the reasons why babies do not like going to kindergarten, and insist on picking them up and dropping them off, so that babies can gradually fall in love with kindergarten. If the baby doesn't like going to kindergarten, adults must not beat or scold the baby, so as not to make the baby even more resistant to going to kindergarten.
