Nowadays, most families rely on elderly people to take care of their children. Due to the high pressure of life, if a full-time mother is employed, the burden on the family will be heavier. Therefore, after giving birth to a baby, women will return to work, and the children will be taken care of by elderly people before going to kindergarten. Over time, mothers realize that babies and themselves are not as close as before. So how can babies kiss their mothers?
In theory, the closest person to a baby in this world is their mother. However, during the baby's growth process, whoever spends the longest time with the baby and who the baby is most familiar with naturally becomes more dependent on the person who takes care of them. This person is considered the closest person to the baby psychologically. Therefore, if the baby wants to be close to the mother, the mother needs to take time to spend more time with the baby.
Women in the workplace do not have the freedom to spend time with their babies like full-time mothers do. They can always be by their babies' side, but they can leave their babies to the elderly to take care of during working hours. After returning home from work, they must personally take care of their babies, help them take a shower, tell them stories, accompany them to sleep, and take them out to play on weekends. No matter how tired the mother is, they must insist on doing these things themselves. Only by spending more time with the baby can they be closer to themselves, otherwise the baby will become increasingly distant from themselves.
