For some adolescent children, many parents may feel anxious about this. In fact, parents' reactions are normal because adolescent children have a desire for perfection, but also regret, reject others' indoctrination, and crave for help. This contradictory mentality will make adults feel absurd. But for children, it is very meaningful. So how to deal with adolescent children?
Satisfy children's reasonable material needs, because when children enter puberty, they will have needs in clothing, stationery, snacks, and other aspects. Parents need to learn to judge whether their children's needs are normal. If the family's economic situation is good, it can improve their children's living standards. If the economy is poor, don't force yourself to let your children enjoy high consumption just because you are afraid of them being wronged. This approach not only fails to instill confidence in children, but also strengthens their competitive mentality.
Many parents constantly educate their children out of concern, some even resorting to physical abuse, and some even prevent their children from having normal social interactions, because they are afraid of affecting their children's learning, fearing that their children will fail, and fearing that their children will waste time. But this approach is not right.
Parents should communicate with their children appropriately to make them trust you. Therefore, parents should learn to listen, listen to their children's troubles, and then give their own advice, which can deepen the relationship between children and parents.
