As a mother. It is normal to know that children cry, but for some children, this behavior is very obvious, and mothers need to pay more attention at this time. When children cry, many mothers are helpless, feeling both annoyed by the crying and sorry for their own babies crying so hard. So, let's take a look at how to educate children who are insecure and prone to crying.
How to educate children who are insecure and prone to crying
1. Patience is necessary when dealing with children crying and fussing
For some negative emotions in children, as parents, we must learn to "calm down" and never get angry or shout at our children. On the one hand, it cannot solve the problem, and on the other hand, it can also have a negative impact on children. We need to learn to be patient and understand why children cry. We must understand the child's inner thoughts in order to solve their negative emotions.
2. Teach children to express their emotions through language
When parents see their children crying, they can use emotional expressions to reflect whether they feel unhappy because their mother is not with them. This will help children learn how to express their emotions through language. Children's emotions are very complex, but they may not have the ability to express them, so parents often use various vocabulary to describe their feelings at that time and gradually determine their child's emotions. Children will also gradually understand that I can also express my emotions and feel others' emotions through these words.
3. Not agreeing to the baby's requests made during crying
If you make demands on us when the baby is crying, our attitude is one of obedience and compromise. It will only make him feel that he can achieve his goal by crying in anything he does. So we should firmly say 'no' to him. Tell him with attitude that crying is not a shortcut. Tell the baby that if they want to solve a problem, they should speak it out in language and discuss it quietly with the adult.
Should we avoid paying too much attention to children
If parents pay too much attention to their children, it will make them dependent on you and become isolated. What we need to do is to provide children with more opportunities to interact with their peers, so that they can gradually learn some ways and methods while accompanied, interacting with their peers, and playing. Strengthen your inner self, open up, and bravely face life.
Children often don't understand many things. As parents, we should be more patient and teach our children little by little. At the same time, we should also pay attention to setting a good example for ourselves. We cannot educate our children in one way and do it ourselves in another. In this way, parents' authority and image in front of their children cannot be established. You should know that parents have a significant impact on their children.
