Some children aged 1 to 3 are particularly prone to crying, and for whatever reason, they will cry incessantly, even for an hour. Why do children love to cry? How to educate children who love to cry?
Why do children love to cry
1. Sensitive children cry a lot, falling down, having a small hole on their knee to cry, and crying even when their toys are taken away. Although they often cry, a sensitive child is not unhappy. They often care about the emotions of others, sympathize with them, have good observation skills, and can abide by rules, which make their lives useful.
2. Chinese parents are particularly afraid of their children crying. Whenever a child cries from a young age, adults always satisfy and compromise, making the child feel that "crying to get what they want" or "avoiding doing things they don't want to do" is very effective; Sometimes children are not taught to express their emotions through language, so they only use crying to express themselves; Children who are not often accompanied by their parents and feel unsatisfied with love or security will appear anxious and uneasy, showing a crying or unhappy expression.
How to educate crying children
1. Sensitive children feel more intense pain than other children, and it is not wise to prevent them from crying. Parents should gradually strengthen themselves through understanding, sympathy, and encouragement.
2. Teaching children to express their pain through language, explaining why they cry, and providing some comfort from parents can reduce the chances of crying.
3. You should criticize your child less and praise them more. If your child proudly tells you, "I washed my hands by myself," you should encourage them to wash their hands first, which is a good thing. Don't rush to accuse them of "spilling water everywhere." In other words, "make sure to boil the water smaller next time.
4. For children who cry incessantly due to unreasonable demands, as well as those who cry and make a big fuss due to stubbornness or doing wrong things, a firm and gentle approach should be taken to downplay the situation. Never be soft hearted or lose your temper, be patient. Until he calms down, then make an appropriate response. When unable to meet his needs, first tell him that there is something better than this or make an agreement with him on what kind of requirements to achieve before buying.
