When a baby is very confident in what they can have, they will make the act of sharing. So let's take a look at which of your sharing actions can cause harm to your baby!
Two sharing concepts that harm babies
1. Instilling children to share with humble reasons. This will cause children to accumulate dissatisfaction. It's not wrong for parents to educate their children to be humble, but parents can pay attention to whether their children are happy and find excuses to get angry after sharing things with others? If there is, it proves that she is unwilling to give things to others. Parents can tell their babies: Things belong to you, and you only share them when you feel happy or indifferent. Don't force yourself, let your baby learn to express their dissatisfaction.
2. Baby is not allowed to say no. This will lead to withdrawal behavior. Specially teaching children that they must share and not allow them to say no, anyone can ask for their belongings. Children only learn to please others in this way. What's even sadder is that perhaps others are just thinking about it, and before they even speak, they have already given things to others in order to please them. Over time, he accumulated a lot of pressure in his heart, and as he grew up, he became extremely susceptible to being influenced by others. So parents should allow their babies to say no, teach them to follow their inner thoughts, and not force themselves.
Regarding sharing, you can guide it this way
Learn to take care of yourself first, then take care of others and share. Parents can let them know that being willing to share is good, but they should also teach their children to adhere to these principles: 1. If there is something you have a lot of or no longer need, you can share it when others need it. 2. If you really like it, you can also share it if you don't want to.
