A child's character must be patiently cultivated in order to be better shaped the day after tomorrow and become a useful person when they grow up. Selfishness and stubbornness are the traits that children must not develop, as these two points are the most annoying. How to prevent children from being selfish and willful for their future development?
1. Parents should lead by example and cultivate their children from a young age. During the character development stage of a child's childhood, parents can be said to be the best teachers for their children. The spirit of sharing or humility from parents can have a profound impact on their children. So if parents want to prevent their children from being willful and selfish, they should start from themselves and set a good example of love, sharing, measurement, and selflessness for their children in daily life. Let children learn these good qualities from their parents, which can prevent them from becoming bad.
2. Parents should patiently teach their children. In the cultivation of children's personalities, parents should remember not to be impatient or prone to anger, as this can cause children to lose confidence in themselves, and in severe cases, may even lead to autism tendencies. So if parents want their children to not be selfish and capricious, they should patiently guide them when they make mistakes, gradually guide them to correct their wrong behavior, learn to share, and be a good child who is not selfish or capricious.
