After a child makes a mistake, should they choose to point it out directly or use a gentle approach? We should try our best to maintain the dignity of children while also helping them recognize their mistakes. What should we do then? After the child wets the bed
At a foreign kindergarten, a little boy wet the bed and was a bit at a loss. At this moment, the teacher suddenly asked the other children to close their eyes and the little boy to hide, and then quickly changed the sheets. By the time the children found the little boy, they had already forgotten about bedwetting. The teacher cleverly restored the little boy's dignity, so that the child would not feel ashamed in the attention of the children. Everyone must think that being cared for by such a teacher is a very happy thing, but in daily life, do you try your best to maintain the dignity of your children?
Small people have great ambition
Parents should not underestimate their children. Although your child may fall while walking, their inner strength is actually very strong. With the enhancement of independence consciousness, children begin to care about others' opinions and evaluations of themselves, hoping to receive praise. In order to gain recognition from his family, he will work very hard, which is a manifestation of the child's budding self-esteem.
How to maintain the dignity of children?
Like adults, children also have their own privacy. As the closest person to children, parents must consciously help them protect this privacy and keep the little secrets between them. For example, if a child wets the bed, do not blame or criticize them, and do not tell others about it in front of the child. You have to think that if the child wets the bed, he himself is also very embarrassed. You can quietly say to your child, "Wow, the baby is sweating a lot today. Let's change clothes first and then dry the blanket. If you want to pee in the future, it's best to call Mom. Your baby is so smart and can do it." With such a casual attitude, find a way for your child to make mistakes. Your child's emotions will be relaxed, their self-esteem will be maintained, and they will face their mistakes more easily and actively correct them.
