Every parent hopes that their baby can be brave, positive, and optimistic. Having courage is often an important manifestation of bravery. The baby is timid, and both parents are worried. So, what are the reasons why babies are timid? How to train infants to be timid? Next, let's take a closer look and learn more about it.
What are the reasons why babies are timid
Firstly, children's timidity is caused by many reasons. For example, strict family education makes children afraid to express themselves boldly; Having too little contact with the outside world can lead to a lack of security when visiting unfamiliar places; When a child is timid, excessive scolding can cause resistance and so on.
Secondly, whether the father has spent enough time with the child. Of course, this does not mean that the role of a mother is unimportant. A mother is the sea, and a father is the mountain. The impact that a mother and a father bring to a child is different.
Thirdly, when children cry, parents often use ghosts, monsters, etc. to scare them; Some parents, when their children want to go out and play, use words such as' there are scammers outside who will trick you away 'to dispel their children's thoughts and leave a shadow in their hearts; Some people have too high expectations for their children, and once they do something wrong, they may scold them lightly or even beat and scold them severely, causing them to shrink back out of fear of failure. Some children are timid and lack courage, and one important reason is that parents pay too much attention to their children, even spoil them, and take over every detail, depriving them of the opportunity to try.
How to train timid babies
Firstly, expand the child's range of activities and expose them to more people and things. Babies have a timid personality, so as mothers, don't be too anxious. First, observe the baby's movements. Like only children in urban families, they almost live in enclosed spaces before entering the kindergarten and rarely come into contact with strangers. Once they leave the family environment, they will inevitably show timidity. Parents should take their children outside to play with children and exercise their perseverance and heart in nature.
Secondly, do not demand too much from children and give them more encouragement. Making mistakes during a child's growth process is commonplace. If the criticism of a child's mistakes is too harsh, the child will begin to doubt themselves and fear making mistakes. In order to avoid making mistakes, it is better to do as little as possible and speak as little as possible, so I am increasingly afraid to express myself.
Overall, it is possible to train babies to be timid, but this cannot be achieved without the careful cultivation of their parents. Parents should expose their babies to more people and things, take them out for walks, and spend more time with and communicate with them. Help babies establish a correct worldview, outlook on life, and values.
