Playing with your own baby in the community, you encountered other children and asked them to play together. However, what surprised you was that in just the blink of an eye, the baby cried to other children, and you awkwardly apologized to their parents Many parents have encountered this situation, right?
Why do babies hit people
Beating babies is really a headache for parents, because no matter how you educate them, babies just don't pay attention. As long as their things are touched or taken, they will hit them. You think babies are rude, so you keep trying to stop them, but in fact, babies are in a period of self-awareness sensitivity, and the reason why they exhibit this behavior is also driven by self-awareness.
For babies who are in a period of self-awareness sensitivity, hitting others is a common phenomenon, and the trigger point is mostly due to others touching their own things. They will stubbornly believe that these things are mine and others cannot touch them. If someone insists on touching them, they will resort to "hitting" behavior.
This' hitting someone 'is not a true form of hitting someone
Although the baby has engaged in physical violence, the act of "hitting" at this time is not related to the baby's malicious subjective harm. For the baby, it does not really mean hitting, but rather "excluding". He will think: "I disagree with your behavior, you have done something that makes me unhappy and unwilling, so if I want to" exclude you ", I will hit you with my hands. At this point, control your emotions well, do not argue with your baby, and do not blame or lecture him, because the baby's "hitting someone" is not truly rude behavior. You can allow the baby to use their self without violating the rules, as this is the starting point for their self formation.
