When educating children, every parent's approach is different. Most parents are still very cultured and do not beat or scold their children. But there are also some temperamental parents who find it difficult to control their emotions and often beat and scold their children. Let's learn about their children's behavior after being beaten and scolded.
Most children will hold a grudge against their parents after being beaten or scolded. Because they feel that they should not be beaten or scolded, their parents do not love them, and they may even feel that they are not biological. When recalling past experiences of being beaten and scolded, one may develop resentment towards their parents and be unwilling to pay attention to them. In fact, such consequences are very serious and can affect the parent-child relationship between children and parents. Some children may even resort to violence against their parents in the future.
There is also a small group of obedient children who excessively blame themselves after being beaten or scolded. They feel useless and can't do anything well, only making their parents angry. If a child is in such an emotional state for a long time, it may affect their personality and cause them to become increasingly insecure.
In fact, parents should never beat or scold their children when educating them. Even if their children make mistakes, they should reason with them and tell them where they went wrong. Instead of directly hitting and scolding, in such a situation, although the child admits their mistake, they do not truly realize their mistake.