People nowadays pursue freedom and divorce when they are unhappy. So in recent years, the divorce rate in China has been on the rise. I want to ask those adults who have divorced, have they considered what to do with their children when they are divorced and free? Will the child be injured? Today, let's introduce the harm of adult divorce to children.
The harm of adult divorce to children
1. Children are prone to developing strong negative emotions. These negative emotions, such as feelings of inferiority, abandonment, resentment, etc., can to some extent affect their social activities with peers, ultimately affecting their interpersonal communication, causing psychological defects, and increasing the difficulty of companionship. Children are prone to behaviors and personalities such as timidity, isolation, irritability, extremism, and lack of trust, which are formed due to their parents' unhappy marriage.
2. It is easy to lack confidence in life and study. The breakdown of a family often leads to incomplete family education, and children living in single parent families often lack good upbringing and guidance in their studies. A broken family can also cast a shadow over their hearts, causing them to lose confidence in their lives and studies.
3. Personality formation and development are severely affected. Parents are the first teachers of their children, and divorced families generally bring incomplete personality influence and education to their children, which leads to defects in the formation of their character later in life. Divorced parents may also approach their relationship with their children with the attitude of compensating or treating them as if they were their own children, leading to various personality defects in the formation of their children's personalities.
4. They are prone to serious personality defects. After parents divorce, children seem to lose the love of both parents. Even if parents take responsibility and want to give their children love, this love is still incomplete. Some children, in their mother's view, have a different kind of behavior, and in their father's view, they are afraid of being abandoned, which can easily lead to personality defects in children.
How to reduce the harm of divorce to children
1. Before divorce, it is essential to have a formal conversation with the child.
2. Pay attention to protecting children's self-esteem.
3. Parents' grievances should not involve children.
4. Frequently visit children.
The above is some understanding and introduction about the harm of adult divorce to children, hoping to be helpful to everyone. Divorce is a relief for adults, but a harm for children. So I advise everyone to be cautious when getting married, and even more so when divorcing. When it comes to unavoidable situations, we must also minimize the harm to children.
