In the process of educating their children, many parents often cause psychological trauma to their children due to improper methods of educating them. Whenever such things happen, people always feel that parents are not good at educating their children. Especially for parents who like to scold their children, can scolding educate their children well? If not impossible, it may also have adverse effects on the physical and mental health of children. So, what are the hazards of girls being frequently scolded?
The harm of girls often being scolded
1. Weak and insecure personality
If parents often scold their children, over time, the children will develop a sense of inferiority from the bottom of their hearts, thinking that they are useless, and thus will distance themselves from their parents and even develop a sense of fear towards them. Children who grow up in such an environment often follow orders, experience mental suppression, and have a strong sense of self pity, so they will also be passive in their future studies.
2. Psychological suppression and loneliness
Due to frequent verbal abuse, children's self-esteem is seriously at risk. They become self destructive and believe that they are "inferior", doubting their abilities and refusing to interact with others, leading to a solitary and silent personality.
3. Mental restlessness, chestnut restlessness
Some parents have excessively high expectations for their children, exceeding their children's practical abilities. In addition, their indifference and rude teaching methods towards their children can invisibly increase their psychological burden, causing them to be constantly in a state of fear and anxiety. The effect is often completely opposite to their expectations, and they are further away from the parents' requirements.
4. Splenic restlessness
In fact, parents often argue with their children, which sets a bad example for them. Children have a strong sense of simulation, and when parents often argue with their children, they will bully and argue with other children outside, especially those who are younger than them. Psychological dissatisfaction and contentment often lead to children's mood swings, thereby triggering certain psychological illnesses.
How to help girls who are often scolded build confidence?
1. To have a correct understanding of oneself, because there are significant differences in personality between people, it is important to understand one's own strengths and weaknesses. Learning to highlight strengths and avoid weaknesses helps to develop one's own unique self-confidence.
2. People are constantly changing and developing, and girls need to constantly update and improve their understanding of themselves in order to become better and more perfect. To have a correct understanding of oneself, one must view oneself with a comprehensive and developmental perspective.
The harm of girls being scolded frequently is very serious, and parents should not ignore it, because it may become a psychological shadow for them if they are not careful. In fact, there are various ways to educate children, and this method of educating children through hitting and scolding is the most unwise. Because sometimes this extreme approach is not effective, but may even have a counterproductive effect, resulting in a situation where the gains outweigh the losses. Maybe we can use a different way to educate our children.
