It is natural for children to cry, after all, babies have to cry loudly from birth, and crying is the only way to express their emotions and needs when they cannot speak. But as they get a little older, children shouldn't cry for no reason. However, there are always a few babies who still love to cry when they are a little older. So, what is the reason why a 2-year-old baby suddenly loves to cry?
1、 The reason why a 2-year-old baby suddenly loves to cry
1. If it's not due to physical reasons, then the baby suddenly starts crying and lacks a sense of security. Try not to leave your baby alone. It is recommended to take your baby to participate in outdoor activities and play with other children.
2. Crying is just a means of obtaining. Nowadays, parents have fewer children and are too fond of them, fearing that they will cry. Therefore, whenever a child cries from a young age, adults always satisfy and compromise, making the child feel that "crying to get what they want" or "avoiding doing things they don't want to do" is very effective.
3. Insufficient language expression ability is due to the attentive care of parents or caregivers, where children do not need to speak and only need to hum, cry, or point, and adults know what they want. This hinders the growth of children's language expression and application abilities, so they often resort to crying and making gestures to express themselves.
2、 What should I do if my baby loves to cry
1. Children who understand their sensitivity have a stronger threshold for pain than other children. Not allowing children to cry is unethical and unfriendly. In order to make sensitive children cry less and shed fewer tears, we should encourage them to be strong, guide them to restrain their crying, and have understanding and sympathy for them, which can actually reduce their feelings of loneliness and vulnerability.
2. Cultivating Children's Self Esteem: Children who lack self-esteem are prone to sensitivity and crying, so increasing children's confidence and self-esteem enables them to be good at self recognition and generate a sense of achievement.
3. Do not reinforce that when a child cries, praise should not be given, privileges or rules should not be revoked, or punishment should be exempted for crying. Parents should adopt a neutral attitude towards their children's crying, so that they can distract their attention and stop crying.
In fact, when babies are young, they find that whenever they cry, adults will come to care for them, hug and coax them. Over time, they remember this way of courtship, and even as they grow up, they still use the tricks they used when they were young to get the results they want. It is very important to educate children correctly. Have parents remembered this?
