As children grow older, they will inevitably enter the stage of learning, starting from kindergarten. At this time, children may feel a little uncomfortable transitioning from home to school, and many children will resist this process very much. Many mothers have some clever tricks to coax their children to go to kindergarten, so what are the tricks to make children willing to go to kindergarten?
What are some tips for children who are unwilling to go to kindergarten
1. Prepare the baby comprehensively in advance. Helping babies learn independent and group living, as well as cultivating their social skills, can assist them in smoothly adapting to kindergarten.
2. Encourage babies to have a sense of anticipation for kindergarten and influence them through stories and role-playing.
3. Early cultivation of self-care ability allows children to be more composed.
4. Parents adjust their mindset and give positive suggestions to their baby
5. Communicate more with the baby after returning home. Be sure to avoid using negative reinforcement language to imply and evaluate a child's performance.
Reasons why children are unwilling to go to kindergarten
The long holiday has caused the child to become lazy. When it comes to going back to kindergarten, he instinctively feels fear and cannot concentrate. During long holidays, they are relatively lacking in constraints and surrounded by familiar family members. They take good care of their food, drink, and daily life, with almost no pressure. However, when they return to kindergarten, they have to abide by discipline, attend classes, sleep, and complete tasks according to regulations. Their sense of superiority is suddenly lost, replaced by a sense of collectivity, and many things need to be completed independently.
There are still many clever ways for children to avoid going to kindergarten, but the key is that we cannot deceive them. The best way is to use reason to persuade them. Even if the child is still very young, deception will only make them more averse to school and will not help cultivate their love for learning. To make children fall in love with school better, in order to move forward more easily on their future path of learning.
