After giving birth, women will have postpartum confinement, during which their mother-in-law and mother will come to help, and time will pass quickly. After the confinement period, mothers usually learn to take care of their children by themselves, and their mothers in law go home. So what are the consequences for mothers not letting their mother-in-law take care of their children? After reading the following text, everyone will have a better understanding.
What are the consequences of not letting the mother-in-law take care of the child
1. It's okay to say that vaginal delivery is okay, but women who have a cesarean section may not be able to take care of themselves and may experience reinfection;
2. During the period of taking care of children, women may not eat well and their milk intake may decrease;
3. Always taking care of the child all day, unable to tidy up the house, someone came over to see the child, the room was too messy;
4. After the child falls ill, there is nothing they can do.
What are the consequences of letting the mother-in-law take care of the child
1. Add complementary foods in advance. The earliest time to add complementary foods should also be four months. The harm of adding complementary foods too early is to damage the underdeveloped digestive system of the baby. Although there may not be any immediate negative effects, it can be seen whether the child's health is better than that of scientifically fed children when they grow up.
2. Embracing too early. At three months old, the child's front waist is still very soft and they cannot stand their head alone. Holding them upright can affect the child's spinal development. But many adults are unable to control children at all. Some children cry when they are held horizontally, but when they are held upright, it's fine. So many elderly people "follow" their children, and even very young children start to be held upright.
3. Cover the child. Older people always feel that babies are afraid of the cold, and they can always see them wearing a lot of clothes for their children while taking care of them. Wearing too many clothes can make babies feel uncomfortable and easily trigger the formation of eczema. As for not sleeping well at night, frequent rubbing of the head and sweating can lead to pillow baldness, which parents often misunderstand as calcium deficiency.
4. Do not let children eat their hands. The initial way for babies to perceive the world is through sucking, almost everything they want to grab and take a few bites, and the most "enjoyable" one is eating their hands. This period is called the "oral sensitivity period" or "oral desire period" of babies. The requirement of sucking is a special need of children during this developmental stage, and should not be deliberately restricted. If deliberately obstructed, it will actually prolong this period, which is why some children still like to eat their hands when they are very old.
What are the consequences of not letting the mother-in-law take care of the child? I am too tired to take care of myself, especially for couples with children who have been working for a whole day and can't be of any help. It's really exhausting. If the mother-in-law can lend a hand, let her come over and the two of them switch to coax the child, it will be easier. If the mother-in-law intervenes in the child's affairs, you can explain it to her in detail to avoid disputes.
