Some children who were originally attending kindergarten suddenly don't want to go, and some even refuse to let their mothers leave when they see the teacher at the class gate. This is something that many parents may encounter. Some children pick up well at night but don't go in the morning, which is extremely troublesome for parents. So let's take a look at the reasons why children suddenly resist going to kindergarten?
What are the reasons why children suddenly resist going to kindergarten
1. Kindergarten does not have freedom at home
Although there are many children in kindergarten who can play games and play with them, there is ultimately no freedom at home. Children have to be constrained by teachers, eat and sleep on time, and cannot do whatever they want like at home. Therefore, even if children do well after school every day, they will still resist going to kindergarten when they wake up in the morning.
2. Holiday Syndrome
After weekends or long holidays, children's resistance to going to kindergarten becomes more apparent. Finally, on weekends, parents will let their children stay up late and take them to activities they enjoy. The life order established by their children in kindergarten is completely disrupted, creating a strong contrast with the situation in school. Naturally, children do not want to be constrained.
What if a child suddenly resists going to kindergarten
Firstly, parents should understand that their children enjoy playing and watching cartoons at home and being with their parents before the age of three. At this time, it is understandable to have a resistance mentality when the child is forced to abandon the familiar environment and suddenly be sent to a strange one. When a child says "no", parents can follow his words and say, "Do you feel happy being at home with your parents? Actually, kindergarten is also very interesting. There are toys, slides, and friends in kindergarten.
Secondly, if the child still cannot accept it, parents can directly hand over the child to the teacher after the start of school and leave the kindergarten as soon as possible. In this way, if a child suddenly realizes that they have no attachment partner, they will be forced to independently face the kindergarten environment, teachers, and peers. Then, he will try to accept and gradually become familiar with it. Once familiar, he will gradually get used to it.
It is very common for children to suddenly not go to kindergarten, and parents also think that their children are mischievous, but in fact, most of them have reasons. If there is a conflict with the children in the class and they cannot handle the situation, parents need to help handle it in a timely manner. It is also possible that the teacher punished the child for not listening, and such situations are quite common. In short, parents should handle the situation appropriately and help their children enter the kindergarten smoothly.
