Every baby has a habit of relying heavily on their mother. Some babies have milder symptoms, so it's okay to occasionally leave their mother. Some babies may become irritable and cry uncontrollably without their mother's company at night. So, what's wrong with babies only having their mother at night?
What happens to the mother when the baby arrives at night
1. For full-time mothers, the one who has the longest contact time with their children is usually the mother. At night, babies may feel a sense of rejection towards other relatives, feeling that only their mother's embrace is the safest. This dependence is not only the blood and flesh connection of ten months of pregnancy, but also the familiarity with the mother's embrace and the attraction of milk fragrance after birth.
2. During the process of growing up, children have too little contact with the outside world, and their world is only about their mother. The rejection of others is an instinct to protect oneself. During the day, mothers should take their babies to crowded places to play and let them know more about the people and environment outside.
What should I do if my baby always loves to find his mother
1. Be sure to hug your baby in a timely manner to calm their emotions, as this will make them feel safe and loved. Use toys or snacks to divert the baby's attention and slowly let go of the baby. Take the baby outdoors to play, and the baby will happily run around in the garden.
2. Only when the baby actively wants to hug can you hug the baby. Don't always hug the baby when they should explore independently to avoid trouble. Don't reason with the little baby. As the baby grows up, the mother still has to work. Don't let the mother hold it, okay. They can't understand language, but they need their mother to embrace them to feel love and warmth.
Babies always love to find their mothers, partly because they spend the longest time with their mothers out of dependence on them, and partly because they are too timid to sleep alone. Parents should find an opportunity to communicate and interact with their babies, give them enough sense of security, and not let them always rely on their mothers. Babies also need to grow up independently.
