We have learned from history that in the late period, the Qing government was weak and incompetent, signing a series of unequal treaties. On the one hand, it is the strength of Western capitalist countries, and on the other hand, it is the decline of the Qing government, characterized by stubbornness, arrogance, and isolationism. In fact, people need to know how to communicate in order to make progress. So, what if the child is unwilling to communicate?
What if a child is unwilling to communicate
Firstly, maintain a close relationship with the child. Friendship plays an important role in cultivating a happy personality. Therefore, parents should encourage their children to play with peers and teach them how to have happy and harmonious interpersonal relationships.
Secondly, provide children with opportunities and power to make decisions. The cultivation of a happy personality is closely related to guiding and controlling children's behavior. Parents should try to provide opportunities for their children to know how to use their decision-making power from an early age.
Thirdly, teach children to adjust their psychological state. Children should understand that the secret to some people's lifelong happiness lies in having a highly adaptable psychological state, which enables them to quickly bounce back from disappointment. When a child encounters some kind of setback, it is important to let them know that the future is always bright, and teach them to pay attention to adjusting their psychological state, so that they can regain a happy mood.
What are the reasons why children are unwilling to communicate
Parents should adopt a critical mindset to examine themselves and see if there are any aspects of their daily conversations, attitudes, expressions, etc. that make their children afraid and fearful. Did you ever not listen carefully when your child told you something? Have you ever shared your child's innermost thoughts with others as a joke or used them as a joke? Have you ever been harshly criticized by your child for talking to you about how mischievous your school classmates were? If that's really the case, then of course the child will hurt their self-esteem or be afraid of your criticism and unwilling to communicate and interact with you.
Children aged 12-18, with their own growth and development, begin to have their own independent thoughts. They are willing to hide their secrets deep in their hearts, which is a normal phenomenon for a long time. However, children in this period often receive incorrect education from their parents, causing them to hide everything they do and fear being harmed. This is also an enhancement of self-protection awareness.
Overall, children who are unwilling to communicate tend to be introverted, but this personality can be corrected. The relationship between parents can affect the baby, and when parents love each other, the child will be sunny and positive. Companionship is the longest confession of love. Despite being busy with work, parents should spend more time with their children, but they should not spoil them and limit their material desires.
