Nowadays, parent-child communication has gradually become a concern for many parents, who often complain that their children are particularly stubborn and cannot listen to any reason. In fact, children need good communication skills from their parents, but parents lack proper parent-child communication. So, what if the child can't control it?
1. Parents learn to squat down and talk to their children
When parents squat down, they can be in a state of eye contact with their children, making them feel that the status of parents and children is equal. Although this is just a small physical gesture, it can lower the posture of parents, which is the foundation of good communication. Only with mutual respect and equal treatment can communication proceed.
2. Parents wake up to whether they are forcing their children to do things
As parents, we definitely don't want to be forced by our superiors to do work that we don't like, so when it comes to dealing with our children, parents should not force them to do something really excessive. For example, if a child needs to wash up before 8 pm, no matter what the child is doing, they should stop immediately. Obviously, this behavior may cause children to develop resistant thoughts.
3. Parents learn to think from their children's perspective
No matter when, parents should think from the perspective of their babies, which is the effective way to educate their children. The growth of a child cannot be separated from every day's effort. Perhaps a child may have mischievous moments or make mistakes, but after all, a child is just a child with limited abilities, and only then does he need to grow. Parents should have a tolerant heart and tolerate the losses caused by their children's growth process. For example, if a child accidentally breaks a vase, dirties clothes, and so on.
