When babies play together, some parents are very angry when they see their own babies being beaten without retaliating. You may think that the baby is timid and too cowardly, afraid that the baby will be bullied outside. But even if the parents hand over the baby and ask him to fight back, it is of no use. So, let's take a look at the personality of a baby who can't fight back after being hit?
What is the personality of a baby who cannot be fought back
Some children are very obedient and gentle, and do not actively attack others, so they always fall into being bullied by others. Especially after children enter kindergarten, they may have arguments over a toy or a few words from friends, and boys may even fight. At this time, gentle children are more likely to be bullied by aggressive children.
Some children, perhaps influenced by their parents' education or due to their own personality, do not fight back when they are bullied, but rather end up with nothing. Children may deliberately choose to avoid things because they don't want to make them more serious. Some people may think this is a sign of cowardice, but in fact, this attitude of children is also a humble and tolerant attitude.
How to help a baby who cannot be fought back
1、 Knowing how to be humble does not mean being patient
Why do you say that? We educate children to understand that humility is right, but letting them endure against their own wishes and ignore their feelings is not humility anymore. When a child can no longer bear to express their inner needs loudly: "If he hits me, I'll hit him!" At this point, we need to squat down and communicate with him well, discussing his feelings, thoughts, and emotions, whether he is angry or aggrieved. The purpose of communication is to let children know that humility does not mean tolerance.
2、 Empathy from the perspective of a child
Carefully feel the child's emotions and feelings after being beaten, and actively respond to your feelings when you hear him express dissatisfaction. After the child is beaten, don't impulsively make any decisions for the child. It's better to calm down and listen to what the child is thinking first.
3、 Guide children to express their inner needs
After listening to the child's confession, it is important to guide the child to express their inner needs and let them speak out on their own whether they plan to endure or fight back. Especially when children are angry and wronged, guidance is needed. If the child's attitude towards this matter is' don't care and don't care ', then there is no need for guidance. For example, "What's wrong with the baby? Are you feeling wronged? Are you angry? Come and see Mom" - and so on.
What is the personality of a baby who cannot be fought back? Some children have this kind of personality, being generous and not nitpicking with other children. Of course, there are also some babies who are taught by their parents not to fight with their children. If parents find that their baby has been beaten and do not fight back, then parents should help their baby communicate with the child who hit them.
