The education of children is a top priority that every parent needs to pay attention to, especially for some children who not only cannot listen to their parents' education, but also have a rebellious attitude and often show obvious resistance. This situation can make parents even more headache stricken and helpless. So, what if a child has resistance?
1. If a child shows resistance, as a parent, do not be arbitrary at this time. First, analyze the reasons for the child's behavior and communicate effectively with them. You should choose a relatively gentle attitude to communicate with your child and encourage them to express their true thoughts. Remember not to create obvious pressure, and create a relatively tolerant and free atmosphere for children to vent their dissatisfaction, which can have a psychological balance effect.
2. After venting in this way, children often express their dissatisfaction with the matter during the process. Parents should listen more carefully instead of persuading and educating them. This way, children can also feel that their ideas are valued and respected by their parents, and having a sense of identification is more conducive to communication and event execution in the future.
3. When the child is about to release their rebellious and resistant emotions, and their emotions gradually stabilize, it is necessary to analyze the pros and cons of the event from a different perspective with the child, and analyze the disadvantages of the resistant emotions. Only then can the child better accept the parents' viewpoint.
