Everyone has emotions in life, and when they are angry or unhappy, children are no exception. Children are particularly prone to getting angry in daily life, and for some unknown reason, this can make many parents angry. At this time, we should not be careless and should control our children's emotions in our own way. What should I do if I don't speak and tend to get angry at the age of 2?
What should I do if I don't speak and get angry at the age of 2?
1. Shifting the child's attention: For some young babies, it is difficult for them to understand various big truths. At this time, it is necessary to try to shift their attention and let them detach themselves from the current situation as much as possible, and focus on some fresh things.
2. Narrowing the distance and patiently teaching: When a child is frustrated, tell them that "others have also encountered this matter, and no one has succeeded", letting the child know that it is not due to their own problems, thereby reducing their psychological pressure and self blame. This expression can bring parents and children closer, and then hug the child to further relieve their tense emotions. After the child calms down, tell them the reason for the failure and work together to solve the problem.
3. Refusal accompanied by other comforts: When a child asks for something, parents usually refuse harshly, and some may give reasons, such as the child wanting chocolate. Parents may tell the child that it is too sweet and can cause tooth decay. At this time, other foods such as an apple or other healthier things can be given to satisfy the child's request from other aspects.
How to prevent babies from getting angry?
1、 To avoid sudden situations that may cause temper outbursts, try to maintain consistency and regularity in daily activities. When there are changes in the activity schedule, give the child a 5-minute buffer and adjustment process.
2、 Please make sure your child is well fed and sleeping before going out, so that they are less likely to get angry due to minor provocative behavior. Keep away from temptations that are difficult for children to resist, such as not placing chocolate on the kitchen counter near dinner, to avoid triggering a war.
3、 Give the baby a little bit of control. If children are allowed to choose what books to bring to the car or what lunch they want to have. These small choices may not make a big difference to parents, but doing so will make children feel that they can control their lives to some extent.
4、 Make some small concessions. Sometimes parents can make small concessions, especially when it comes to trivial matters, such as allowing their children to watch an extra 15 minutes of TV instead of listening to them scream for 30 minutes.
What should I do if I don't speak and get angry at the age of 2? We should give children enough space, and parents should not control their children too much, allowing them the right to make their own choices. In daily life, we should let him choose the clothes he likes to wear, what toys to play with, and give him encouragement to prevent him from causing rebellious psychology. In fact, this is also helpful for their future life.
