Raining pants seems to be exclusive to children. Raining pants and wetting the bed are not shameful things. It does require a lot of practice on the road to learning how to use the bathroom. 3-year-old children can already learn slowly, but some babies will wet their pants when they cry. It is necessary to change their pants in a timely manner. Let's learn what to do when they cry at the age of 3.
What should I do if I wet my pants when I cry at the age of 3
1. Children aged 2-4 are in the period of anal desire and seem to have an interest in feces and urine that we cannot understand. Children at this stage are also very prone to wetting and pulling their pants. When crying nervously, it is also easy to wet your pants. This stage is a period that every child will experience during their growth process. Parents should be careful not to blame or complain too much about their children pulling or peeing their pants. Instead, choose to quietly assist the child in changing their pants.
2. Never blame your child for peeing on their pants. If your child is three years old or older, you can ask them to help clean up the urine on the ground and wash their own pants, so that they can face the phenomenon of peeing and pulling their pants with a relaxed and relaxed attitude. After this period, children can naturally master the rules of urination and defecation.
3. Some children who are too timid or have kidney deficiency are prone to urinating in their pants. It is recommended to use dietary supplements, such as eating more yam, fungus, black sesame, fish, shrimp, quail eggs, etc., to enrich the baby's diet. Also, take the child to exercise more, and this phenomenon will gradually disappear.
How to properly handle children urinating in their pants
1. Don't criticize or accuse children loudly
Loudly criticizing a baby, getting angry at them, demanding an apology or apology will only make them feel more scared and even begin to resist toilet training. We should approach it with a calm attitude and guide it step by step.
2. Do not punish children for continuing to wear dirty clothes
Trying to teach a lesson to a baby by letting them continue wearing dirty clothes will only make them feel more upset, ashamed, and uneasy. Suggest calmly and gently saying to the baby, 'Come on, let's go change into clean clothes and pants. Remember to use your toilet next time.' And quickly help the baby clean up their clothes.
3. Don't always make excuses for your child to wet their pants
Saying things like 'the baby is still young' can make the baby find excuses to back down, which is not conducive to their growth.
Parents are very distressed when their children wet their pants. After their children wet their pants, they should not be in a hurry to scold them all the time. In fact, when it comes to wetting their pants, children cannot resist it. Beating and scolding cannot have any positive effect. Therefore, after dealing with their children wet their pants, it is important to communicate more with them and use gentle communication instead of verbal abuse and beating. This is crucial.
