It is said that raising a child is the key to understanding the kindness of parents, but only those who have been parents know how difficult it is to raise a baby. In addition to being responsible for the baby's eating, drinking, and defecating, one also needs to take into account the baby's emotions. However, many babies have a very impatient personality, and when they are slightly dissatisfied, they become furious and cry loudly. Parents are always passive and helpless at this time, so what should be done if the baby has an impatient personality?
What should I do if my baby has an impatient personality
Firstly, parents should identify the reasons why their children tend to lose their temper. It may be due to the child's low ability to regulate their own emotions, lack of self-control, poor expression skills, and easily getting angry at small things; It could also be that children lack the ability to judge whether their demands are reasonable or not.
Parents should communicate more with their children in their daily lives. Understand the needs of children and pay attention to their interactions with other children.
3. Pay attention to cultivating children's broad interests and flexibility in doing things. The cultivation of interest should not be too early or too late. Children's interests are particularly easy to transfer, and decisions should not be made solely based on parents' opinions, but should be based on the opinions of professionals and the child themselves.
4. Cultivate children's flexibility in doing things. When children play with toys, eat, or dress, they should not only "fix" one way, method, and appearance, but also try to "diversify" them from an early age, allowing them to have room for selection. Especially when one thing, food, or toy no longer exists, children should be guided to transfer to other things, food, or toys in a timely manner. The better this regulatory ability, the better its flexibility. When a child's interest increases and their attitude towards handling difficulties and problems becomes more flexible, their habit of getting angry will also decrease accordingly
Reasons for a baby's irritable personality
Overindulgence is an important cause of impatience. If parents spoil their children blindly, comply with their requests, and always give in, it will make their children more and more irritable. If parents also refuse their children's reasonable requests, making their desires always unfulfilled, it can also make the child irritable and sometimes develop resentment.
Therefore, parents should try their best to meet their reasonable demands, but for unreasonable demands, they should patiently persuade them. Do not refuse outright without the child knowing the reason, especially when the child makes a request and the parent immediately denies it before the child has finished speaking. This will make it difficult for children to distinguish which of their requirements are reasonable and which are unreasonable, which will affect their level of understanding and lead to the formation of the idea of "parents don't agree anyway".
From this, it can be seen that the impatience of babies is mostly habitual. Due to the excessive indulgence of parents and their willingness to meet their demands, babies tend to be impatient in everything and easily lose their temper at the slightest dissatisfaction. So parents need to correct from the source, firmly say no to unreasonable demands from their babies, and also be cautious and patient in setting the right example for their babies.
