Many children are spoiled by their grandparents and have a big temper. Some children are very impatient, and sometimes their bad temper can make their mothers particularly angry. At this time, the mother should not have the same understanding as the child, because the child is still young and does not know how to control their emotions. Sometimes they cannot distinguish between good and bad, and their personality is very impatient. So what if the baby is impatient?
What should I do if my baby is impatient
Parents can also take the lead in dealing with impatient children.
Punish children appropriately for their impatience and temper. We should adhere to principles and punish them when they make mistakes.
We should let children know that if they are always impatient, they should take responsibility for their actions. If children make mistakes due to impatience, they should bear the negative consequences themselves. No matter how we ask for forgiveness, it is impossible to change the outcome.
To present facts and reason, it is inevitable for children to make mistakes, and it is normal for them to have personality defects. As parents, we must give our children more reason, let them understand the principles, follow rules, and pay attention to the ways and methods of doing things, in order to change bad habits.
How to guide children correctly
Creating an environment to promote the healthy growth and communication of young children is an important way to establish personal and social connections, improve social adaptability, and cultivate a sound personality. It plays a crucial role in the formation of children's healthy psychology and personality.
The method of transferring interests: Children's attention is easily distracted and attracted to new things. When children become stubborn and insist on it, they should use the characteristics of the situation at that time to try to shift their attention and interests to other things. They should quickly get rid of this situation and focus on other activities that interest them.
Positive guidance: If children are interfered with or scolded for punishment, they may temporarily become obedient, but at the same time, their self-esteem and confidence will be damaged, and their development of independence will stagnate. Reasonable behavior and requirements for children should be met and encouraged.
The current social situation is that the whole family revolves around one child, and it's really scary to keep it in their mouth. Children should buy whatever they want and do whatever they want, which has developed them into arrogant and domineering little ancestors. Just harming the child, the mother should guide her correctly and not get used to it blindly. Mothers must change their habit of spoiling their children and guide them correctly. They must have principles when doing things.