A baby has just arrived in this world and appears fresh and unfamiliar with everything in the world. At this point, some children may show what their parents consider hostility towards the world. However, this is actually a deep-seated fear in the child's heart. Faced with this fear, the child cannot let go, and the parents have no clue about this emotion. So what should the baby do if they are timid?
What should I do if my baby is particularly timid
1. Cultivate self-confidence: Children's lack of confidence is often caused by their lack of confidence. Therefore, in order to help children overcome the problem of timidity, parents should find ways to build their children's confidence. For example, when a child succeeds in something, they should be given appropriate encouragement instead of just hitting them. This can gradually cultivate their confidence and improve their symptoms of timidity.
2. Don't be too hasty: It is very important to create a "stress free" environment when dealing with timid children. When children are unwilling to interact with other children, parents should not force them to play with them, as shy children prefer one-on-one interactions; When a child is unwilling to behave in front of guests, do not force them, as doing so will exacerbate their tension and lead to more silence and rejection in the future, exacerbating shyness.
3. Do not publicly accuse or humiliate children: this will only increase their pressure and frustration, making them more timid and withdrawn. When a child refuses to call someone, do not force them to do so in front of the customer, and do not use words such as "no one can call, he/she is mute" to scold and humiliate them. Instead, patiently educate and encourage the child after the customer has left.
The reason why babies are timid
1. Parental intimidation: A large part of the reason why children are timid is because parents often intimidate their children. Parents often use words such as demons and monsters to scare their children, which has a great impact on their children. How can children not be timid in the long run?
2. Frequent scolding: Some parents are very strict and demand too much from their children. If a child makes a slight mistake or has something that they don't like, they often scold loudly, criticize severely, and even use force to punish them;
3. Congenital factors: Parents have introverted personalities and are not good at socializing with others, and children inherit their characteristics. Parents should understand their children's personalities, allow them to gradually adapt, and at the same time give them as much care and love as possible, encouraging them to socialize with others. Parents should be role models for their children and not show timidity in front of them when faced with problems.
The confidence and expressiveness of a baby are mostly determined by their parents. The innate personalities of parents will determine the child's personality, which is one of the reasons. Another reason is that parents always give their children excessive blows, causing their confidence to decline and they no longer want to have confidence. Regardless of which aspect, they hope that parents can help their children correct it.
