Many parents complain that their children are disobedient and refuse to listen, continuing to make the same mistakes. In fact, this is a necessary stage for every child's growth. As parents, we should patiently deal with this problem, try to let our children try various things on their own, instead of blindly blaming, beating, and scolding them. So what if our children don't listen and refuse to change after repeated education?
What should I do if my child doesn't listen? I refuse to change despite repeated warnings
In fact, if a child does not listen, it is also closely related to their parents. Educating children should not be done using physical methods, because children are still children. If they are sensible like adults, they should not be called children anymore. Children of a certain age are already very curious, and things they have never seen or touched have a curious mentality towards them. As parents, we should not stop their behavior, but rather guide them positively to learn new things. Provide guidance and assistance to the child's performance.
Reasons why children do not listen
1. The first reason why children don't listen is that there is a big difference in ideas between adults and children, both of whom think they have no problem. If this is the case, parents must communicate more with their children and reason with them.
2. The second major reason why children do not listen is that they want to express their desire for independence through disobedience. At the age of two or three, children will enter their first rebellious period in life, which is typically manifested by saying no to their parents, or some children may not express negation directly through language, but through actions.
3. The last reason why children don't listen is that they want to listen, but don't know how to listen. So when parents speak, they should pay attention to speaking well, so that their children can understand, the more specific the better.
In short, as parents, never forget the importance of communication. Actively observe the child's state and integrate into their world.
