Many young children in daily life have developed a dependency on certain things. In fact, parents and friends should provide appropriate explanations and other methods for children who have an excessive sense of dependence. Additionally, parents and friends should not scold their children, as this will only make things worse for them. Therefore, in such situations, appropriate treatment should be given. So, what should children do if they develop attachment?
What to do if young children develop attachment
1. The attachment relationships formed by babies in the early stages will continue steadily and affect their ability to interact with others in the future. When a baby establishes a good attachment relationship with their mother, they will believe that people can trust and help each other. When children grow up, they will also establish good and healthy relationships with others, treat others the way their parents treat them, show more friendly cooperation, and be welcomed by more people.
2. So, a seemingly simple attachment actually plays an undeniable role in a child's future mental health and behavior. If parents fail to grasp this critical period, the baby may become more distant from their parents in the future and may develop various psychological and personality problems.
Reasons for excessive attachment in babies
1. Overindulgence. In the eyes of parents, the baby's affairs are more important than anything else, and they can give whatever the baby wants. Many parents believe that now that conditions are good, they should try to provide their babies with a comfortable and relaxed environment. Why be too strict? Therefore, as long as the baby is happy, parents are willing to spare no effort, even if it means picking stars from the sky or catching fish in the sea.
2. Physical contact. From birth, the contact between the baby and the mother is the most frequent, and the mother is also willing to use small gestures such as hugs and kisses to express her love for the baby. Over time, the baby becomes accustomed to the mother's way of expressing emotions, and these unintentional actions gradually give the baby a sense of security and dependence.
So when encountering excessive attachment in babies, you can tell them that they cannot always have attachment, because such a situation can harm the baby, and there are many reasons that lead to attachment. In fact, there are many reasons that can cause attachment, such as excessive love.
