There will be many children in this world who have a lively personality at home, but once they leave home, go outside, communicate with strangers, and play, they will be very introverted and unwilling to play together. This is a personality problem that mothers need to help children deal with. So what's wrong with being lively at home and introverted in kindergarten? Let's learn about it together.
What's wrong with being lively at home and introverted in kindergarten
1. In fact, many people have misunderstandings about kindergarten teachers, and not necessarily all teachers who treat children poorly or physically abuse them. Because there are so many children in a group, the requirements for teachers are also different. For example, for mischievous and mischievous children, parents will also demand that teachers can strictly manage their children, and teachers will also have more constraints on such children.
2. However, when introverted children see these things, they often develop a sense of fear, and over time they may be afraid to speak or communicate. This requires parents to communicate more with their teachers, share any observed phenomena with them, and ask them to pay more attention to their children. Over time, they will improve.
What should I do if my child is introverted
1. A correct understanding of oneself means not overestimating oneself, being overconfident, self righteous, and looking down on others and not interacting with them; Don't underestimate yourself, be overly insecure and afraid of socializing with others. We should not only have a correct view of our own strengths and weaknesses, but also face the strengths and weaknesses of others, establish an equal attitude towards others, and build good confidence in interpersonal communication.
2. Learn to confide your frustrations, troubles, and other negative emotions to your loved ones or friends, and abandon the autistic mentality of being burdened with your own troubles;
3. Hobbies and interests can help vent and transfer negative emotions in one's heart through interest activities, thereby reducing psychological burden and enhancing self-confidence;
4. Through learning, not only do you learn how to get along with others and master interpersonal communication skills, but also because you have accumulated enough knowledge, you can easily find common topics in the process of interacting with people, making them feel that you are easy to get along with, thereby improving the harmony of communication.
Through the previous text, I believe that all mothers have already understood what it means to be lively at home and introverted in kindergarten, as well as what to do with introverted children. Everyone has various personalities, and it is not necessarily the case that one personality is good or bad. However, interpersonal communication skills are essential for everyone, so mothers should cultivate their children's communication abilities from a young age.
