In the eyes of their father, children are like dragons and phoenixes. They have more expectations for them and put a lot of effort into them, hoping that they will one day live a good life. Therefore, many parents strictly demand that their children be beaten and scolded whenever they make mistakes. I still have to advise everyone not to take action, it's better to be friendly. So where is the best place for children to play?
Where is the best place for children to play
If a child does not listen, there are always some special internal reasons. At this time, parents should pay attention to observing and analyzing to find the right reasons. When children make mistakes, parents should not rush to hit them, because impulsively hitting them often backfires. Some parents hope to help their children recognize their mistakes and learn from them through spanking. Spanking can seriously affect a child's mental health, and the risk increases with age. When dealing with children, one should observe carefully, patiently guide them, and never hold opposing views.
When you have no choice but to hit your child, you can consider hitting the palm of your hand. You should treat hitting your child as a ritual of education, and make sure to clearly tell them why they were beaten, how many times they should be beaten this time, and how to deal with them next time they make a mistake.
How to correct a child's willful behavior
1. Parents should require their children to have certain behavioral boundaries and guide them to develop good habits. To make children understand what to do and what not to do, and encourage them to persist in their execution. We must never accommodate children who exceed their behavioral boundaries, otherwise,
2.it will only spoil the child and encourage their stubbornness, which will be difficult to correct in the future.When a child is willful, parents should be good at diverting their child's interests to transfer their stubbornness.
3. Parents should pay attention to educational methods and be patient. When a child cries, parents can adopt a careless attitude to make the child feel that their crying cannot scare anyone and gradually calm them down.
Where is the best place for children to play? I hope that children and parents can get along peacefully, sit down and communicate well about this issue. If parents really want to fight, they have to think about whether this is really their child's fault? Did you wrongly accuse him? Is this punishment method effective? Will it make him more irritable, worse off, and hurt the child? Everyone should consider it and not hit the child easily.
