In summary, with the advancement of information technology in society and the fact that expectant mothers undergo prenatal screening, babies born are generally intelligent, lively, and mischievous. But now with the fast pace of society, parents can also feel irritable, so it is impossible for children to grow up without being beaten. So which part of the child can be hit?
Which part of the child can be hit
When parents educate their children, if the child is really too mischievous, they can communicate with them, but it is best not to hit the child, so as not to leave emotional scars on the child and affect their life. Below, the editor will explain to moms which parts parents cannot hit.
1. Head
The child's head must not be hit. The child's head function is not fully differentiated at a young age. When the child's head is hit, it may cause capillary rupture and bleeding, and in severe cases, it may cause intracranial hematoma. Clinically, children may experience headaches, vomiting, nausea, and even dizziness!
2. Ears
Some parents like to tug on their ears. Children's ears are fragile and not fully developed. If they exert too much force, it can easily damage the ear nerves and affect hearing!
3. Facial features
If you hit someone but don't hit their face, then you can't hit the child's face. It not only damages the child's face, but also causes psychological harm to the child!
4. Butt
When spanking lightly, although it does not directly cause muscle or limb damage, the feeling of pain will be transmitted through the central nervous system, stimulating the brain and putting the mind in a state of tension and depression. Excessive force during spanking can easily cause extensive soft tissue contusions and bleeding when repeatedly struck!
5. Stomach
Parents know that children's stomachs cannot be hit! There are many organs in the stomach, and when subjected to strong blows, it is easy to cause internal bleeding, with the most serious consequences!
What adverse effects does indiscriminate corporal punishment bring to children
1. Affects intelligence
Long term exposure to such an environment can lead to a child's personality becoming introverted and unwilling to express themselves, making it difficult for them to showcase their talents, and consequently, their intelligence cannot be improved.
2. Psychological issues
For example, they may become bored with the world and feel that life has little meaning; It may also generate a rebellious mentality towards this society, and do some antisocial things, etc.
3. Parent child relationship
This is the most obvious change, you will find that your child will become farther and farther away from you, unwilling to talk to you, and unwilling to share things from kindergarten or school at home. After reaching adulthood, children will not be grateful to you, but rather harbor significant resentment.
4. Decreased grades
If a child's exam results are not good, they will be beaten up, thinking that this will make the child afraid of being beaten, and they will study seriously. Although this approach may slightly improve a child's grades, it will quickly decline, so corporal punishment is not a long-term solution.
Which part of the child can be hit? Parents educate their children in daily life, after all, children are still children and will definitely have immature and playful behaviors. In addition, as long as the children are older now, mothers also have their own jobs and are relatively busy. When the children get angry with them after returning home, they will naturally use some violence. But hitting children is not a good way of education either. Those who can theory should never take action.
