Every child is the heart of their parents, but some fathers may find that compared to themselves, their children are more intimate with their mothers and more afraid of themselves. This must make fathers feel sad and puzzled, not understanding why. So, why are children more afraid of their fathers?
Firstly, because fathers usually have less contact with their children than mothers. Children must know their mothers better than their fathers. It is normal for people to have a fear of things they don't know very well. So children are much more afraid of their fathers.
Therefore, children have delicate bodies and skin, and fathers should be careful when in contact with them, protect their bodies and skin, hold them gently, and speak gently. When interacting with children, it is important to seek their opinions first, so that the child will feel that their father values them and be willing to accept their father's care.
No matter how much the child dislikes the father, the father cannot withdraw from his parenting role. Practice has proven that children raised by fathers, or those who enjoy ample fatherly love, grow up with outgoing personalities, flexible minds, strong bodies, and full of vitality.
So, Mom needs to find a way to get Dad into parenting and take on the responsibility of parenting together with herself. In addition, dad also needs to love mom very much. If dad treats mom badly, the child will be very sad and will hate dad from the bottom of their heart.
