If it were to say what they dislike in life, most people's answer would be 'bear child', and similarly, the most unreasonable would be 'bear parents' of' bear child '. Some parents indulge their children too much, to the point where they develop unpleasant personalities, and some even have violent tendencies. Why is this?
Why do children have a tendency towards violence
1. Parents are busy with their careers and lack education for their children;
2. Parents excessively indulge their children, and their inappropriate behavior towards them will never be seen;
3. There is domestic violence in the relationship between parents, and children follow suit;
4. Mom and dad have put a lot of pressure on the child, and the child cannot bear it, causing psychological distress. The guiding role of parents in children is significant.
What should I do if my child has a tendency towards violence
1. Change method: When parents know that their child's tendency towards violence is due to their own reasons, they should promptly correct their own shortcomings and problems. Not allowing the child to continue developing is extremely detrimental to their future life. Parents should play a leading and exemplary role, using their own practical actions to tell their children what is right and what is wrong.
2. Positive guidance is the main approach: education focuses on daily life, and education is not something that can be achieved overnight. So, parents should pay attention to instilling correct thinking in their children in daily life, and should take positive and healthy guidance as the mainstream. Because children have weak ability to distinguish right from wrong, they do not know what is best, so it is easy for them to imitate at will. Telling children more positive stories can help them consolidate their sense of right and wrong.
3. Calm down: When a child is throwing tantrums, parents should not immediately coax them. This will help raise the child's bad temper and let them know that parents are most afraid of losing their temper, which is not a good thing. The most important thing to do is for parents to turn around and leave the battlefield, allowing their children to contemplate on their own. Both sides calm down, which is beneficial for children to recognize their mistakes early and make corrections.
Most children nowadays are only children who are pampered by their grandparents, grandparents, and parents at home, living as "little emperors" and "little princesses". But once time goes by, it is inevitable that many problems will arise, but the elders at home have not corrected the child's mistakes in a timely manner. It is easy to cause children to have violent tendencies. So, parents should educate their children rationally.
