For the education of children, not only should we focus on their academic development, but sometimes we should also pay extra attention to the cultivation of their character. Because children are still young, they don't have a clear concept of right and wrong. Sometimes when they do something wrong, their parents scold them, but they don't know what they did wrong. How can parents solve the problem of their children lying about kindergarten supplies?
Why do children lie when they take things from kindergarten
Nowadays, children's material needs are easily met, which can lead to them wanting to have what they need.
In the process of interacting with the external environment, this kind of thinking will continue, lacking the concept of ownership and unable to distinguish oneself from others' things. Even if one knows it belongs to others, they will not consider whether it belongs to them because they want it, and will want to own it. This is the main reason why children "take" other people's things. Parents should learn to remain calm when their children have problems with 'taking other people's things',
What should I do if my child lies while taking things from kindergarten
1. Let children understand the ownership of "items", that is, which things belong to themselves and which belong to others? What belongs to oneself can be freely disposed of, while what belongs to others requires their consent before use. We should also establish this sense of ownership at home. Distinguish between children's belongings and adults' belongings, and when children need to use their parents' belongings, they must seek their parents' consent. Parents should also seek their children's opinions when using their belongings. Moderately meet the needs of children.
2. Parents' guidance to their children is always gradual, and sometimes it is due to inappropriate parenting methods that children may encounter certain problems. Violence cannot solve the problem. At most, children know that this thing makes their parents particularly angry and they cannot do it next time, or they cannot let them know next time. A calm and resolute attitude will help children solve problems.
The above is the editor's analysis of the behavior of children lying when taking kindergarten supplies, as well as suggestions for parents on what to do when encountering such problems. In fact, when your child encounters this problem, you should not be too harsh and think that the child is stealing things. In fact, he may not even know that it is wrong, and you should not neglect to persuade him, as this will encourage his behavior.
