Nowadays, many families have disagreements over taking care of their children. Many parents want to take care of their children themselves, but due to busy work schedules, they have to leave it to the elderly to take care of them. In fact, under normal circumstances, it is better for children to follow their parents, as the love that parents give to their babies cannot be given by others. So why do children have to take care of themselves?
Why do children need to take care of themselves
Because parents are the first teachers of their children, their own education and lifestyle directly affect their future. Taking care of children by themselves is mainly for the purpose of teaching by example, while elderly people only spoil their children.
The main reason is that young and old people have different values, living in different eras, consumption levels and concepts, languages, and so on. Physical reasons are also an important factor. Children are willing to run and jump, but cannot stop for a moment. Elderly people, due to physical reasons, cannot accompany their children everywhere and prefer to stay at home. Children are in a closed environment and cannot play with peers, which is not good for character development. Even when going out to play, the elderly may be careless or slow to react, and children may not have enough time to react when encountering unexpected situations.
What are the benefits of taking care of children by oneself
1. Children raised by oneself are more confident. Generally, children raised by oneself have a more confident personality. When they play with children and other children talk about their parents; Children can naturally talk about how their parents love them.
2. Children raised by oneself are more brave, and they are brave and will not step forward to help them when they encounter some difficulties. If a child falls, parents will directly ask him to get up on his own and it's okay. The elders will directly step forward to help and ask if the fall hurt, and even say what's wrong with letting the child fall.
3. The child raised by oneself is independent, and young people learn a lot of knowledge, so they won't take care of everything for their child. From a young age, children are encouraged to engage in appropriate self-care activities such as organizing toys and dressing themselves, in order to develop independence. I don't have the idea that children are still young.
4. Having their own opinions, the children they bring up have their own opinions, and parents understand that their children will not use adult authority to suppress them in anything. I am more willing to be friends with my child, and my child is also more willing to talk to their parents. Parents will directly buy and explain to their children the right to choose from comics and toys that they value. Older generations do not think that useless books waste money.
In fact, there are many benefits for parents to take care of their children themselves. When you take care of your child, you can quickly discover their emotions, know their interests and hobbies, and understand their personality. If you always take care of your child by yourself, they will be closer to you, willing to share happy things with you, and feel that parents are both teachers and friends. Therefore, if conditions permit, it is better to take care of your child by yourself.
